As Humans we have a innate need to plan. Planning can be wonderful, it gives you goals and places to go. Yet, do we harm the bigger picture when we try to plan our lives without attention to the reality of our lives. Eisenhower said "In preparing for battle I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable." I believe that this is fitting for the battlegrounds of life. As with war, the situation changes constantly, we can't rely on one huge blueprint and follow it with...