As Humans we have a innate need to plan. Planning can be wonderful, it gives you goals and places to go. Yet, do we harm the bigger picture when we try to plan our lives without attention to the reality of our lives. Eisenhower said "In preparing for battle I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable." I believe that this is fitting for the battlegrounds of life. As with war, the situation changes constantly, we can't rely on one huge blueprint and follow it without making adjustments. To live our lives like this would cause us to miss out on opportunity and make us more like a robot, rather than a soul in a flesh body.
I have learned that the key to a happy life is listening to everything around you; Your body, soul/intuition and the proper use of a psychic/spiritual adviser. I believe many things will pop up when we need to leave or alter a situation or area of life. In the past, when I worked at a job that denied my spiritual nature, I got ill with migraines and other illnesses. At the time I had no clue why I was having these awful things happen to me. I knew deep down that I didn't belong in the job that I had, that I had a greater purpose. I was forced out of this job because of these issues and found myself fulfilling my life purpose. The illness dissipated.
When we are in the wrong place in life or are pursuing things that do lead us down the wrong path illness will likely hit. In my case a past condition flared up, migraines. For others it could be asthma, depression or a number of other conditions. Most of the time I see chronic conditions get worse and/or past conditions pop up again when a person needs to make changes. Part of this is due to stress, it can wreck havoc on our lives.
I'm going to ask you to do some work. Listen to your body for a moment, feel the pains and anything else it could be telling you. Is your body yearning for you to take on a better diet nutritionally or even spiritually? Or maybe your body is having aches and pains? Could you're body be telling you to stop and spell the roses? I honestly believe that everything has purpose and everything is connected.
There is no right or wrong way of listening to your body, following your heart. You might want to look back at past health issues. I bet you'll find some connections between health issues and situations that you needed to leave.
We also must listen to our soul/intuition. when something is wrong you will feel it deep down and you will be screaming for change. A good gauge of this is how you feel on Monday morning when you have to go to work. If you feel that deep dread, feeling as your job isn't fitting your life, its not. When you're soul is screaming out, In some cases you will have loved ones speaking of their concern when this symptom pops up. It can make you unpredictable and sometimes manifests as depression. One thing I need to note, is please don't assume that your depression is due to this, if your depressed seek help!
I'm going to once again ask you to do some work. Close your eyes, try to be alone if possible. Clear your mind of any 'busy thoughts'. What are you feeling as take a moment to look it over? If you feel contentment and happiness congrats! If you are feeling uneasy and have that feeling at the pit of your stomach its time to take a look at your life.
Many choose to seek spiritual guidance. If you do decide to take this path there are right and wrong ways to use this advice. I see three major patterns in my clients
Pattern one is comfort. This is a client who comes to me in a rough period and is looking for self assurance. Comfort is not a bad thing, but when its your main reason to seek a guidance it will only lead in in circles. A reading with more focus will lead to results.
Pattern two is fantasy. This is a client who comes to be given a fantasy. They want to hear about a rosy future and want to be told everything will be wonderful. I usually do not read for people with this focus because I have nothing to offer them. Life will always have challenging, that's the wonderful thing about it. Another sign of a person with a fantasy goal is that they come to a adviser often, almost compulsively asking the same questions over and over. If you see yourself in these words then I beg you to take a step back and look at why your calling up me or another psychic. Your not only wasting your money in my opinion, you are not making progress and not living life to its fullest. So much can be learned from a psychic reading!
Pattern three is the most wonderful type of client, someone who comes to be empowered. A person with this goal is looking advice on how to handle a situation and how to manifest things in their life. This type of person comes to a expert rarely to often, but they always are looking for new information and insight on situations. These clients take everything in to account and they don't take a psychic's advice as an absolute truth. Although a psychic can be very helpful. Please follow your gut. Spiritual advisers are human too and make mistakes. If you come across a psychic/spiritual adviser who claims 100% or 99% accuracy run like the wind!
Now that you have looked over these three issues, peace together the similarities, and look at what you need to change. Making changes won't be easy, but being more aware of these aspects of your life will make it so much easier and more enjoyable! I also ask that you don't make a rash choice because of what you find! Making life changes should be choice considered in length. If you have three kids to feed, please don't quit your job on a dime. You must be realistic. I hope you find contentment and happiness in this quest! Matthew Allen |
